Many girls find the bad boy vibe attractive. Everyone knows bad boys are trouble, but girls still want to date them because there is just something about them. Maybe it's their motorcycle, their tattoos, or just the overall sense of mysteriousness. Here are several things you need to know about dating a bad boy.
They will keep you on your toes. Get ready to be spontaneous because bad boys are not fond of making plans. They like to do things on the spur of the moment. Exciting, breathtaking, sometimes dangerous things. If breaking your routine stresses you out, you will certainly be uncomfortable dating a bad boy. But if you are ready to step out of your comfort zone, go for it! But first make sure you have someone to bail you out of jail. Just in case.
They are straightforward. Bad boys don't play games. If he is interested in you, he will let you know. However, there is a difference between being straightforward and freely expressing one's emotions. Bad boys are often afraid to open up about their feelings, so if you are waiting for a big love confession, don't get your hopes up too high. He will tell you how hot you are all the time, but confessing his undying love is definitely not his forte.
They are great at sex. Bad boys are confident, and this confident shows in everything they do, including sex. They know what girls want and are not afraid to give it to them. If you've always wanted to try being kinky, a bad boy is the right person to try it with. But don't let him pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do.
They are nonchalant. Most bad boys have a nonchalant attitude and never worry about the little things. Sometimes this indifference comes in handy, and sometimes it is irritating. For example, when what he considers “a little thing” really matters to you.
They have a soft side. Most bad boys have a soft side and can be sweet, nice and chivalrous when they want to. However, don't make the mistake many good girls who date bad boys make. You shouldn't try to make him reveal his soft side. All in good time. When he lets his guard down, he feels vulnerable, and that's not the feeling he is used to. Let him show you his soft side when he is ready to.
There is one more important thing you have to remember about bad boys. For some of them it is just a phase, but most bad boys don't change, and they are not exactly husband material. Such a relationship can be fun while it lasts, but don't expect he will change for you. He is not your pet project, you cannot “fix” him. And don't change yourself for him, either.
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