Sex is so much more than penetration. Just like most men like getting blowjobs, most women think that cunnilingus feels amazing. If you want to rock her world in bed, you'd better not refuse to go down on her. Here are eight oral sex tips that will help you give her a mind-blowing orgasm.
Tip #1. Foreplay is important. Cunnilingus doesn't have to lead to an orgasm, it can be part of the foreplay. However, this doesn't mean that you should immediately get down to business and go straight for her clitoris. The clitoris is very sensitive, so if she isn't aroused enough, it might be unpleasant bordering on painful.
Tip #2. Make sure she is comfortable. If you want her to really enjoy the process, you need to make sure she's comfortable and relaxed. Find the position that is most comfortable for both of you (it can take some time, and you don't want to get a stiff neck).
Tip #3. Start off slow and gentle. We've already mentioned that the clitoris is very sensitive, so you shouldn't rush. Start off in a teasing manner to make her beg for more. You can gain speed and intensity as she gets more aroused.
Tip #4. Use different techniques and see what works best. There are a lot of different ways to perform oral sex. You can lick, suck, kiss, nibble and even bite (really gently!). A pointed tongue feels different from a flat one, and a soft tongue feels different from a rigid one. However, there is no point in trying different techniques if you don't watch her reaction. The way she's moaning and moving can tell you a lot about about her likes and dislikes.
Tip #5. Use your fingers or a vibrator. Cunnilingus makes women feel good, but additional stimulation makes them feel amazing. Use your fingers or a toy to stimulate her G-spot while you're going down on her. Just make sure she is really aroused and use additional lube if necessary.
Tip #6. Be patient. Most women take 10 to 30 minutes to orgasm from oral sex, so be ready. If your neck starts hurting and you need to take a break, don't pull back abruptly. Instead, start kissing her inner things or caressing her breasts so she doesn't feel abandoned.
Tip #7. Don't slow down or change the rhythm when she's getting close to climax. When you feel like she's about to orgasm, continue what you're doing. If your lose your tempo or rhythm, she might not come at all.
Tip #8. Don't treat it like a chore. Have you ever received a blowjob for a woman who wasn't really into it? If yes, you know that it doesn't feel that good. Don't act like you're doing her a huge favor, it's a turn-off.